The 40 Rules of Success

P.S: Read the entire text before forming any judgement. Begin with teaching yourself that attaining maturity is contingent on the numerical value of the number of years you spend on this planet. Congratulations! This will already force you to overlook all your illogical and unjustified acts quite easily. Overshadowed by the belief that with time your thinking skills will enhance enough to lead you to leading life according to the supposed untouched rules of living life, you will determinedly keep away from all things that make sense, crossing out at least 25-30 years of your life. Bravo, you've already laid down the perfect foundations of raising a mindless being. Now let's move onto your ability to differentiate between the right path and others. Jumble up your thoughts between discrimination, judging individuals and recognition of the right and wrong. You will most likely end up with a misguided and confused person who will judge people when certainly it is wrong providing all sorts of evidence in support and will do the exact opposite when it is the need of time to recognize the wrong. This individual will talk about humanity, freedom, rights and all the topics that we need to understand but their thoughts will be so entangled that they will imply the right rules in the wrong places. You will judge others for condemning murder and you will refuse to understand one cannot force people to lead lives as he/she wills. You will become accustomed to supporting sins and trampling human rights by accusing others of developing opinions about people, but you will also refuse to nudge from your beliefs when it comes to someone's individual choices that are harmless to all except those becoming a part of their choice. With that you have already begun to master the art of taming yourself the 'right' way. Now make yourself realize acquiring education and learning things are pretty much the same thing. This will guide you to merely only read, rot learn and speak, matters of worldly education. Moral education? Congratulations you are already successful in getting rid of the acceptance of that in your mind. Moral education evolves from the part where you understand the in depth meaning of what you read to attain a degree, that is the real learning. But whoever even needs that. Kids it is enough for you to read what Charles Dickens wrote to sit in an examination. Who even cares about the moral of the story. You are acquiring education which is enough, there is nothing else you need to learn. Ah you must be so pleased with your progress, right? Now let me quickly add a few more points for you to reach level 1 of your training. Begin with shutting down your brain to all sorts of thought-provoking matters, top that up with up refusal to look or ponder upon anything that you may not believe, add a touch of arrogance to your personality believing you are the perfect individual, spice things up with rejection and condemnation of the ability to work together with others, add a hint of abusiveness to your communication, make violence a priority and finally fiercely decline anyone's words in such a manner that they find no difference between you and animal, ending up opting out to ever debate with you. Heartiest felicitations my child, you have already surpassed a major stage of your course. Now move onto level 2. Let's see what is the finest to begin with. Ah, how could I miss it before? Intolerance, let it overpower you to all possible extents. Let no aspect of your behavior cause others believe they could reason with you and reach to an outcome collectively. Consensus should have no standing on your dictionary of life. Now indulge yourself in a superiority complex. Consider it your born duty to force others to feel inferior to you. The perfect addition to this would be reject the rule of law, exactly what you need right now. Of course how could I forget the right add-ons to this. Learn to walk away from all your responsibilities, social, moral or of any other type. Believe that is your right to renounce anything that harms you and your actions, completely ignoring the fact that it may be positive for others. Abide by nothing but the limitations you set for yourself, irrespective of the fact that they may even be causing you to trespass someone else's. Anger, let that little darling guide you in your public dealings, and become highly impulsive and quick to react, paying no attention to the future of your actions. Confuse yourself when interacting with others, doubt their intentions. Don't only limit yourself to doubting them but make them suffer for them even before they take any step. Supposedly if you ever turn out to be wrong in your judgement, never apologize. That is definitely a complete no no in your world. Wow! You are progressing quite quickly. You are already on level 3. Now this level consists of some quick measures you need to take. Learn the value of money and that is precisely all you should value in your life. Throw away the word ethics and never let it cross your path ever again. Believe in individuality and only individuality, you grew on a tree man you have no family no friends who's lives are linked with yours. Guide yourself to understand that sharing responsibilities, burdens and sacrificing for others are laughable concepts. You should never ever intend to benefit others if it is of no benefit to you or in any way may even slightly effect you in a dis-pleasurable manner. Harbor all sorts of grudges in your heart, you aren't born to forget and forgive. Believe in anything and everything you hear, give no consideration to time for making observations or any research. Let materialism command your thoughts and greed be your only source of motivation. Rate things in terms of profits and evaluate everything only in terms of enhancement of personal satisfaction and assets. Amazing! You are already way ahead of what I expected. Now moving to the most important level, level 4. Start with blinding yourself to recognize the rights of anyone around you. Now as much as possible learn to purposely trample over them. When they question your actions, get verbal, get physical, but never ponder upon their words. Believe in the ideology that you are entitled to no questioning of your actions, so anyone who speaks of karma to you, shut them down instantly. Fully agree with this that you are only born to succeed and failure is something you will never have to face, this way you will neither double check your decisions nor will you fear their outcomes. Reciprocation of someone's goodwill towards you is not your duty because you precisely don't believe that anything anyone can do has effects on you, you are born to reach the top, that's it. You aren't bound to return love to anyone who cares for you so never let that thought bother you. Keep people in your lives as long as they benefit you, their existence otherwise is unnecessary. Begin to perceive yourself as a being of supreme authority not only in your life but in those of others, shape their future exactly as you will. You are most certainly not bound to consider what they want, need or what is best for them. You are the man of ultimate power, rule over them like a king. Finally nullify any positive thought that enters your mind and lay the basis of your actions on evils, preach negativity. A round of applause for you. You are now successfully enslaved by your will to succeed! It wouldn't have been possible without your constant determination to 'progress'. (SATIRE)

Startled A Bit?

Startled a bit?
Well this is me.
And this is you too.
This is each and every single one of us.
Some of us are too afraid to stand up for ourselves.
Some of us prefer silence when we see others suffer.
We're all the same.
Eyes closed, hands tied back and the mind? Well we've shut it down ourselves.
I'm not asking for you to wage a war.
I'm asking you to open your eyes, to recognize your rights as an individual.
I'm not asking you to use a weapon for your protection, I'm merely asking you to use your mind.
I'm not asking you to become a superhero, I'm asking you to at least recognize the pain of others and try your LEVEL BEST to ease it. Do anything you can.
We all have our own capacities, and I'm only asking you to work within them. I'm not asking you to change overnight. I'm asking you to at least take a step.
We're all victims of something, and so are those around us. Depression, bigotry, hatred, discrimination, abuse...the list can go on.
At least open your eyes, let your mind think, let your heart guide you to positivity and then take an action.
That action doesn't have to be big, it just has to be a positive contribution, to your well-being and those of others.
If you are positive from within, nothing can break you apart.
Nothing can cause you to harm another.
Nothing can stop you from helping those who are being victimized.
I'm not asking you to do much, I'm just asking you to turn to positivity, to liveliness, to optimism, to philanthropy, to being a better individual...to being more contended.
If all us were happy from within, we would be prepared to face all that came our way. We'd show our enemy nothing can bring us down. We'd not fall behind, we'd lead people.
So open your eyes and look for what brings positivity in your lives. Look for it because it is what will change your future and that of others.
Look for it like I did and today I can say that I'm no longer the person in that picture. I'm more positive than I ever was. I have opened my eyes and removed that tape. I am prepared to face my troubles with open eyes and to speak for myself and for others.
Almost a year ago I began writing my blog and I realized nothing made me more positive than penning down everything I saw. It made me feel if even one person read what I wrote, I might just make that person realize something vital.
From Instagram, to eBlogger, to two novels on Wattpad, I have I made quite a journey this year.
I may just be a young scribbler who's opinions may clash with yours, who's probably writing down in the most childish ways she can. But this scribbler is learning to look around her. To look at people who go through breakdowns just like her. Who've been dejected, who've been though depression, who've not lead quite a simple life. This ability to recognize pain has not only brought me more closer to my Lord, but has opened my eyes so much that today I find myself a lot more positive in any situation than I ever was.
Ten years later I may be laughing at my own work for being highly immature. But ten years later the person laughing will be so because this amateur writer within her taught her to look at others. To realize she's not the only who gets sad and those before, with and after her have, are and will fight with their fears and troubles, and she too has to do the same.
As I complete one year of my journey as a blogger I would like to thank everyone who encouraged me all along.
My biggest supports will never know how much they've helped me progress this year but to sum it up I can tell you something.
A few months ago I was asked by a team of people, consider it a highly official sort of interview. They asked me what is the one achievement that I think is my biggest to date.
I told them I'm a blogger and only my facebook friends know that I'm the person behind that blog. When someone other than them messages me on instagram and thanks me for writing something that made them realize they aren't alone, gave them a new hope to get back on track, nothing can leave me more contended than to help someone from behind a computer screen by merely typing a few words, someone who doesn't even know me.
Make me feel more self-accomplished, more positive.
Look around for your key to positivity, and use it to unlock the handful of positive vibes you can spread.

An Open Letter to the Woman who Slept with my Husband

I don’t know what to say, to discuss morals or ethics, or to comment on your excessive frankness with my husband.
I don’t know if I should blame you for breaking my house, or if I should be sorry for you leading yourself to a dark pit.
You slept your way through to having a shoulder to rest on, but you seduced yourself into falling for a thankless man.
You lured a man into believing he needed you, but you ensnared yourself in a web of lies.
You beguiled him into believing I wasn’t enough, but you gripped onto a man I’m choosing to let go, a rejected man.
You held him spellbound at the sight of your beauty, but you dropped your dignity as you did that.
You seized his attention, his touch, his feel, but you failed to make him feel anything when he held you.
You caught his eye and so he wanted you all to himself, but you failed to grasp him when he still ran to others.
You made yourself believe you were the last in his life, but you failed to see you were just another.
You dropped down everything for him, but all he chose to drop was the barrier of shame.
You found yourself a man, but failed to find a partner who loved you passionately.
His passion was to play with beautiful things, and you let him believe your beauty was another one of them.
I don’t know if I should be thankful to you for showing me his real face, or feel sorry for you for how you lead me to removing my blindfold of trust.
I’m leaving him not only because he broke my heart, but because he trampled on my self-esteem as he did so.
He led me to believe I wasn’t a good wife but now I have realised I wasn’t just good enough for him.
I wasn’t good enough, not because I lacked something, I was just more than he could handle.
I am beautiful but not as scarcely as he wants, my soul adds to my beauty more than the physical he can bear.
I am faithful but not as limited as only maintaining loyalty to hiding his dark side, I’m true-blue to my inner-self, prepared to let go of anything that harms me.
And so I’m parting ways from him, because I cannot let his complex break me, his complex that I’m beyond what he wants.
I cannot let him search for those that please him, right before my eyes to believe I’m not worth him.
Yes maybe I’m just not worth him, because our standards of worth don’t match. Mine begin straight from honesty, and that word has no standing on his list.
I’m moving on in life and I hope someday you too, you move on to realise you’re worth more than such a man’s temporary attention.

Defining Feminism

"Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve equal political, economic, personal, and social rights for women. This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment."
Some people need to roat learn this definition. Feminism is not a crime, it's a belief that we need to overcome today's realities where women are treated as inferior to men. It isn't an issue of the rural alone, in the urban areas to the dilemma exits, consider merely the wage differential. Anyone can choose to be a feminist, genders don't define your beliefs. Feminism is a movement against male chauvinism, not against the entire male gender or every single man. Yes men and women differ in certain ways and yes not all women may be able to equally compete with men in each of life's races, but that doesn't mean women are inferior. Incapability and inferiority are two things poles apart. Inferiority is what someone faces due to the norms of the society. Incapability is something that only sets us apart from someone else, doesn't declare us as below them. Incapability can be tried to overcome but even a feminist agrees it has certain boundaries too. Women bear a lot a man can not, same way men do a lot every woman may not be able to do. Feminism agrees to it and only asks for the opportunity to be given a chance to try to overcome those incapabilities.
No man is born as a perfect individual, he too progresses, but easily because he has no barriers set for him. Feminism demands the same for women, to be given that right to excel without any halts or limitations. Feminism only speaks for the biases set by our society declaring women inferior to men, which basically violates the human rights too.
Feminism does not define sexuality or hatred, feminism defines a movement for some of women's rights as a human being. Feminism doesn't define a woman's preference as to how she acts or dresses. That is a women's individual choice, not a part of the ideology of feminism. Feminism demands for the right for women to make their decisions, feminism doesn't support every wrong decision she takes.
Women have rights no matter what religion they follow, and feminism speaks for their rights. Yes religious preferences may effect as to the span of the issues that come under feminism for every women individually, but still no one can deny her rights as a whole.
I'm a feminist, yes I demand equal rights for women. But I respect certain limitations too. I am a feminist like many others around the globe, but that doesn't define everything another feminist believes to be a woman's right is exactly what I believe in too. I'm a feminist who doesn't support body shaming, but I'm feminist who doesn't support indecency either. I'm a feminist who doesn't believe a woman should have to face domestic violence and that she shouldn't be the one forced to give up. But then I do believe a woman's sacrifices for her family aren't wrong only if she wills to do so, and not when they're enforced on her. I am a feminist, a proud feminist. Don't blame my belief for someone else's actions. My belief speaks of equality alone, my belief doesn't include the limits of equality. Each society sets it's own. Don't blame feminism for something done that is morally wrong. I am a feminist who demands a women's will to be involved in a relationship, but my feminism doesn't define the right to have polygamous relationships. I am a feminist who believes a women's consent is vital for any sexual act but my feminism doesn't define I support pre-marital or extra-marital involvements. I am a feminist who demands the right for a woman to not be harassed, but then I do believe in the same for men too. Feminism is a branch of the struggle for acquiring basic human rights for all, just as the right to be treated equally without religious or racial discrimination. Don't blame my belief for an individuals actions. Feminism asks for equality, it doesn't define support for each person's individual actions.

Definition courtesy Wikipedia.