God bless this child and all those like him, and those who're in a better state of health than him and those in a worser one.
No physical or mental or abnormality deformity ceases to remain as a hindrance in our lives if we are surrounded by people who love us despite our flaws.
That physically challenged kid you see everyday faces a bigger challenge then just what you see. His real challenge is to be given the space to BREATH in a world of 'flawed perfectionists'.
That mentally slow girl that you've spotted occasionally has a bigger problem to deal with then just living her life, she needs to bear with people's 'mentalities'.
The words 'stare' and 'care' are miles apart. Learn to prefer care over stare. If you're blessed, stop bullying others for their flaws. If you can see that person, you can see their problem and sometimes it's a lot more than just inquiring about their medical history. These people live with their issues, they don't need to be reminded of them furthermore. Don't treat them specially, it's equivalent to 'differently' with your mental approach. Stop considering them the odd one outs. They're already odd and that thought breaks them down more often than you think, you don't need to add to that.
As for those who care and are in anyway related to such kids who I would prefer to call God's Emblems of Love for these people are certainly the most tenderhearted individuals you'd ever come across, hats off to you. Especially the parents who love their kids despite everything, you are no less than mentors, mentors for idealistic ways of raising kids. Many may not believe but sometimes these kids not only are met by their own challenges but they face a challenge so tough to achieve that it's incomprehendible how they deal with it, the challenge to receive love from their own parents. Unfortunately such parents exist too who raise these kids due to some compulsions but never love them as their child. May God grant them the ability to love people unconditionally.
May God grant us all the ability to spread love.
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Wednesday, 28 October 2015
Emblems of Love
Tuesday, 27 October 2015
Parting of The Ways
Could there be sunshine,
If there was no sun,
Could there be mountains,
If rocks were next to none,
Could there be plants,
If soil didn't exist,
Could there be any fog,
Without the mist,
Could there be water,
Without oceans or rivers,
Could you be fearful,
And never shiver,
Could there be thunder,
If there were no clouds,
Without each other incomplete,
Is what these things sound,
Then how could you expect,
Our relationship to be perfect,
With your attitude so rough,
That loving you, I regret,
Why is it that you expect,
Me to be always there,
And when I look back,
I see you no where,
Why do I have to,
Never let you feel alone,
But you never bother,
To feel deserted am I not prone,
I reassure you that,
You'll always have me,
But around myself, you,
I can never see,
I care too much,
Just like you want,
But for me you never think,
That isolation could haunt,
Me too just like,
You say it scares you,
Am I only here,
To be there for you,
I'm tired, I'm sick,
I'm over who you are,
You seem so close,
But yet are so far,
I don't want to live,
In this delusion,
I'm tired of knowing you're mine,
When it's just an illusion,
It's not that you don't know,
What I mean,
You run behind those,
To chase, whom you're keen,
To be my priority,
Was your goal,
I love you the most,
You wanted to be told,
My feelings, my thoughts,
Were worthless to you,
You kept me wondering,
What wrong did I do,
I can't live with a stone wall,
Who cares only to caressed,
I want to be with someone,
My presence, who would cherish,
So I'm letting go off you,
For your own good,
I've thought long, I'm doing,
Exactly what I should,
I'm not saying,
I was the best,
Many well-wishers you'll find,
Amongst the rest,
You were good but probably,
Not good enough for me,
Maybe I just want to be with someone,
A bit more cheesy,
You loved me but that,
You never said,
I'm sorry but I have to,
Choose to move ahead,
I don't want to hate you,
I don't want to blame you,
You're not expressive,
But I don't want to ashame you,
You give love to those,
Who you think need to be told,
In that category, me,
You never choose to hold,
I expect to be loved,
Just like I love you,
But if you can't goodbye,
I've given up on you,
Good day my love,
You'll always be special,
But parting of ways,
Is just essential.
Thursday, 22 October 2015
The Beneficial Lies
Fantasised by the lives of others, disgusted by your own?
Too tired of pretending to live the life you'd always desired for?
Well this is what comes straight out of my heart for a person belonging to your category.
In this crowd of innumerable actors who fake each day of their lives, fake their smiles, fake their realities and fake even their very own existence, you are not alone my friend.
Indeed this world is a stage. Spot on Shakespeare, there's definitely no doubt about that.
Sometimes we have no option but to lie. To lie about how are lives are a true depiction of the life we've or we would ever dream of to live.
Sometimes we have no option but to fake our feelings, our emotions and even ourselves as a whole.
To lie maybe a sin my friend, undoubtedly a grave sin, but what would you choose in a life where your own matters aren't enough to bother you? The piercing questions of the world or faking a perfect smile.
The thought of being such a big liar may bug you often and I wouldn't advocate the act of being untruthful, but sometimes it's a whole lot better to act as someone else than to be in your skin.
If your life forces you to be that someone and your intention is merely to escape from the world's questions instead of falling prey to their predatory opinions, it's okay to choose the short cut. Only if your lies harm no one in any way.
Best
'Best'
Why does that one word mean so much to us that things don't seem incomplete, rather meaningless without it.
"I'm not the best."
"I didn't get the best."
"People get to be the best at stuff and here I am, not the best at anything."
NO ONE is the best at everything, NO ONE gets the best of everything and yet EVERYONE is the best at something and EVERYONE does get the best of something.
Thank Allah for what you have and learn to appreciate what He has granted you that you consider the best, maybe less than what you want but still He choose to give it to you, even if just a little. Thank him for all your comforts and all His blessings.
Stop looking at the ones you believe to be better than you, we all come with our own baggages and where they're blessed with one thing, they bear many other losses too.
The real thing is not about being the best or having the best but trying to become the best or trying to achieve the best, the effort counts more than the reward.
The real winners aren't always those who're the best but those who don't give up if they're not, and still choose to try again.
Wednesday, 21 October 2015
The Worst
I don't want to feel like this
I lost the will to believe in it
So don't try to convince me that
This isn't the worst
Don't try to make me believe in this
You're not at my place, not living my life
How could you
Judge from across that border
How could you
When you've not chosen
To look around the shell you live in
If you can't choose
Just don't say anything
It won't help
The effort of those around you to bring you out of your depression, that's what makes the difference.
Surround yourself with people who actually care enough to make your lives better, no matter to what extent they may have to struggle for it.
Learn to identify the ones who don't. Learn to identify the ones whose sympathies are fake.
Value those who have the power to make you believe in the fact that your life ISN'T THE WORST.
Yourself
This is a part of an effort to help these DEPRESSED PEOPLE deal with their issues. Be a part of this and set a status with something you'd want to say to them, to help them out.
i) tough your life is...
ii) complicated your relationships are with others...
iii) mean people are towards you...
iv) depressed you are...
i) how much you've contributed to this 'yourself'.
ii) how much you 'yourself' have distanced these people from you.
iii) why you 'yourself' have given these people the space to trouble you.
iv) how you've never made an effort to change this 'yourself'.
No one can make your life simpler but you, 'yourself'.
Maybe someone in your friends circle, someone you may never have known to be going through a hard time, may be motivated to never give up by your effort. #makeaneffort